Deep-elf hellion in teron will be a fun character.
I'd personally stick with the character if I were you. Once you master not getting killed with a hard as hell to not get killed character like this one, you'll realize how good you are once you roll up a twink race/class combo.
As far as help goes, you'll find there is a good weapons store in the docks of teron called Grahme weapons. You have to state the subtype that you want, but they sell most. You're a delf hellion so you'll want to use reaching weapons for the most part. Use a spear to level until you get cleave, then use a polearm. A landshnekt would be awesome if you can get one, but I doubt you'll be able to unless smoeone hands it off to you. Ask people for one though.
There's an iron armor shop in teron as well that is really cheap just north of the town center.
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