I loot as my character's rp demands. Slayne is a knight and rarely full loots, he respects those who faced him in battle honorably and if it was a duel of honor, he will even guard the corpse of the person he has slain until their remains can be recovered by theirself or an ally of their's.
Not to say i have NEVER full looted with slayne, I have on rare occasion, but it is that, rare.
My characters in general don't normally full loot, they will only take coin, vials, and adamantite or scripted items and a weapon or two.
Now that being said, my swashbuckler is a diabolic with the heart of a thief. He worships no gods, only coin. He was a pirate at sea and on land his natural trade has become that of a highway robber, only he doesn't have the finesse to do it like a rogue. He'll loot everyone dry of anything remotely valuable and if he finds a corpse, he'll loot it too if he had anything to do with that person's death or not. He'll not look a free coin in the eye and walk away, that's just his rp. He'd cut his own mother's throat for a few blacks or a shiny bracelet, and he'll not lose a wink of sleep over cutting down some hapless traveler on the road for profit or fun. He constantly full loots and every time he dies he looses everything himself but bounces back. That's the breaks, you reap what you sow and I understand that and expect no less. The character is not meant to be beloved by all, he's meant to be hated by everyone and no one that hasn't bought him should ever think for an instant that he can be trusted with their back turned to him.
As far as being well connected, that comes with rp. No character ever starts well connected (at least not IC...
). I understand that for newer players its difficult to get some good eq. For the older players it's pretty easy and most of us don't think twice about it and perhaps it seems to the newer players that we are griefing you or being callous. I suppose on a level we are callous but it's not meant to be OOC griefing at all. I was once a newbie and I got my butt handed to me all the time, I couldn't get anything nice without the hammer coming along and full looting me. I didn't start a poll in the forums (hell who am I kidding I played for over a year before I knew these forusm existed but still I wouldn't have started a poll) I got better at the game and learned to deal with it. Equipment doesn't make this game. RP does and always will. I guarentee you that if you learn to survive with second rate equipment, it will make you a superior player in the long run. I was the master of running away long before I was even mediocre at managing to kill anyone else. Those early lessons from the older players pounding my skull in for reasons I couldn't figure out and then taking all my shinies paid off and I learned.
I suggest you do the same.