Forsooth wrote:
Emnity IS part of an deep-elf's or elf's conscious thought. That emnity flows from the race's essential nature and/or nurture shouldn't be an excuse to minimize it.
Fine, then let's make all deep-elves come from Ch'zzrym and all elves come from Sith'a'neil period. That way they all have the same upbringing and teachings engraved into their personalities. I think only then there can be no excuse. There is no consideration of important questions such as: What if an elf is raised by half-elves in Teron? The elf would still have the same good nature alignment, but would not have those teachings engraved in his or her personality. What if the elf was raised by monks in Nerina. That elf's teachings might be that peace is essential no matter what and would do nothing to provoke a fight, even be polite and helpful to a deep-elf in most cases as long as that deep-elf remained civil. Perhaps the elf was raised as a slave in the empire and is so terrified of deep-elves (because they are really mean) that he or she will do anything they say to avoid consequences.
If we hold emnity too strict, then we also need to change membership in many cabals. Elves would not be able to be in druids or Harliquins if there is a deep-elf as a member and vice versa. Yet I've seen both many many times. I've even been guilty of that one once. I say it shouldn't be so black and white. An elf might join a cabal in hopes of gaining leadership and "cleaning it up."
Forsooth wrote:
I believe the help files are deliberately vague. They're supposed to show the races hate each other, but they let us decide how that works out for our specific characters and situations. That's great for individual RP flexibility. But it only works if we accept that the races hate each other, without trying to dodge around it. Let characters be unique in their expression of emnity, not in their neglect of it.
I agree completely. Especially the last part. I mentioned an elf that was in love with my deep-elf sorceress. This was a deliberate disregard for emnity. The role play still worked. My deep-elf took advantage of that elf's sense of trust and nearly destroyed him among his peers. Here is another thing I did with a deep-elf priestess of Zynor I used to have. I would resurrect anyone of light aura, including elves on the condition they would sacrifice some of their blood to Zynor. This was a precondition. I would log the transaction and send the log to Zynor. What this did for some people is really mess them up ICly. Some would get visions and in other ways messed with, provided Zynor had time. One paladin really got messed with bad. It was funny because most of the people that blatently ignore emnity do it out of convenience. To have it bite them in the butt IC'ly was the perfect wakeup call. Others did have, in my opinion, a good IC reason.
Here is my take on it. Rather than OOCly calling foul if you see an elf talking to a deep-elf, whine in the forums and to the Imms, which I have seen several times, have that character IC'ly try to find out why the elf is talking to the deep-elf and ICly guide that person. That in itself can provide rich and rewarding roleplay. And yes, there will be times where X and Y are OOC buddies and that kind of stuff should be stopped.