Dulrik wrote:
Momo, I have no idea who you have played or what admin treatment you received to "scare" you.
Have you ever stopped to consider the fact that you do things like put "scare" in quotes when confessing you know nothing about the situation might, in fact, be part of what's scary about you in the first place?
This is an extreme example, but it makes the point clear: it's like putting "rape" in quotes when you don't know anything about what's involved when someone's started to get comfortable enough to talk to you about it.
The feeling I and several other community members often get is that, without knowing anything about the situation, you're more inclined to trust unsupervised administrators, or at least to distrust complaints about those not already on some poo list. The fact that this was pretty much blatantly documented when Arkex hid in Kytar doesn't help me view what you've said -- and more importantly, how you've said it -- in a manner that regards everyone as equal in potential value to the game experience. Chuckle at believing we're just playing to forum game if you'd like, but the cost of that is being suspected of little more than that, yourself.
If we're all going to rabble-rouse about Syn's personality flaws, it's probably more than fair to suggest that what's going on here is a consequence of your own personality flaws, too, Dulrik. Does that mean it's hopeless? Hardly. But I think it does mean you could have replied to that a
little more tactfully, and you may well owe at least one user an apology for (perhaps unintentionally) belittling feelings.